How do you get more of what you want? It doesn’t matter what you want. It’s different for all of us. Some want success, money, clients, recognition, and significance. It doesn’t matter what it is for you, because it’s perfect for you. But how do you get more of it? There are a few simple steps to make sure that you are heading in the right track.

Stop Blaming Others

First, stop blaming others. It’s easy to finger point and blame – our parents, our friends, our ex-husbands or wives, the economy, and the environment. Stop that straight away. I always say, “When shit’s going down in your business and life, look within. Control what you can control, and you can control your thought patterns, beliefs, and behaviors.” That’s more important than trying to control somebody else’s behavior or somebody else’s beliefs. Work on yourself.

Stop, Listen, and Take Action

What’s going on for you internally? What are you telling yourself? What conversations are you having with yourself? We talk about ourselves badly, and we tell ourselves that we’re not good enough, that we can’t do something, that it’s hard work, that we will never make it, that success is for other people, we didn’t have the right upbringing. What was it? What are you saying to yourself? If you stop and listen for a bit, you hear a lot of terrible stuff going on and take action.

A lot of times, we have to get around because our thinking is at an unconscious level. You’ve been telling yourself other people’s stories. You’re repeating them in your thoughts for many years, and it’s easy to go, “Whoa! I think differently now!” It’s not that easy sometimes…

Work on a Deeper Level

What is it for you? By changing up your beliefs and what you’re saying to yourself with some help at an unconscious level, it can immediately change. You don’t have to struggle. You don’t have to change. You were saying to yourself, “I’m happy!” But you’re not happy because that’s a belief an unconscious level, and you must work at a deeper level using your unconscious to make it easily change.

What is it that you want and how easy it is for you to get it?

You can have it, and it’s too easy to get it.

You just got to believe it.

Take the action, “I’m going to reach out to Sharon.” “I’m going to spend some time with her and change this up for good.”

If you’re sitting there and saying, “I want more of this.” Whatever https://smjcoachinginstitute.com/discovery-session/ is for you, but it doesn’t seem to be coming your way, reach out to me. We can discuss how I can easily change that up for you.